GOOD BYE- 2013

One more year comes to an end, It’s 31st December, 2013. The last day to fulfill all our commitments we made to complete in 2013. The last day to see whether we have been successful in executing all our resolutions we made on the first day of the year. The last day to check out the number of people we added in our Friend List and the number of people we lost because of our mistakes. The last day to judge ourselves and analyze the growth in our professional and personal life. 31st December is not just partying for me but it's a day which lets me know what I am and what good have I done in my life. Being a 27 years old boy, I am someone who has the best strength and power to bring any task under execution, so its shameful to see some of my un-fulfilled resolutions..

When 2013 begun, I made some Resolutions:
1^st  was: To start YOGA, Meditation and exercising. Result: NOT SATISFACTORILY. I started but didn’t retain the Momentum.

2^nd was: To start writing my novel that is the biggest dream of my life. I have started it. Yes. Just started it.
3^rd was: To read 20 novels in a calendar year while I have read 10. :-)
So, out of 3 Resolutions, not a single is fulfilled. Hehe..SHAME..!! :-)

Tonight, many would be celebrating at some sponsored event or at a party. I always believe that this class of people are those who wait for a specific day to celebrate themselves and their life. But for me, each day comes with the same enthusiasm of doing something great and celebrating the same by reading any book or writing something. Thus, I also take my Birthday casually. Because, if I'll celebrate these day by doing something too great then it will surely tease other days of my life with arrogance…J

Coming to 2013, let me epitomize the year and write some wonderful things I got to do this year and some beautiful and memorable things I got to witness.

• In the month of April, I booked a flat at Eden City, Kolkata.. and turned one of my dream of having a house into reality.
• The very next month, my younger sister’s marriage took place and she blissfully shifted to her home at Delhi.
• For the first time, I have been to GOA on Holiday with my other 4 colleagues-cum-friends.. and witnesses the 3Sssss.. of that wonderful place.  Everyone enjoyed there a lot.
• Another great experience that I am having is exercising in a gym at my G-House. It has seriously made me stronger and tougher. Also I played too much this year, including football-match at Haldia..
• And I have also visited Devghar “Baidhnath Dahm” & Ramgarh “Rajrappa Temple” for taking the blessings.. and for the first time I was on fasting for 8 long days “in Navratra”.

Currently, I can remember only these many achievements and new things I experienced in the year 2013. There has been many small experiences but I don't want to share all of them as I am not  a ‘celebrity’ about whom you are interested in knowing about. :-) I had few targets in 2013. I achieved many of them. I had a target to finish my CMA examination without any failure but I didn’t appeared. I had a target of reading 20 books but ceased at 10 itself.

There are so many things that I learnt in 2013 about being a better human being that I feel I am a better person who is going into a new year. And there can be nothing better than this to celebrate tonight than anything else. I have learnt how to deal with close people and how to avoid those whom I dislike. Friends are something that everyone in their life has. If they do not, they actually keep remembering those days in school when they had that particular boy or girl sitting beside them on bench which whom he/she shared some beautiful moments of life. But everyone needs friends. Many people disturb and spoil their life for friends while many use them as magic-wand for success. You automatically identify the friends who wish betterment for you and others who pray illness for your life. There would be many who, on your face, would show how much protective and careful they are for you but actually, they are not. I have got this learning in quite an easy way this year. Accordingly, I have filtered people in my life and now I find myself smiling freely without any glitches or hatred for anyone.

It's cool to follow big legends and real megastars, superstars and role models but there are few personalities who become your favorite for a while of time or say, they just get entered in your conscious to stay for a long period of time. There are few people who really motivated and charged me this year by their performances whom I think I should mention:

• I would like to talk about Farhan Akhtar first. This guy is known for being a director, actor, lyricist, poet, singer, writer, producer, anchor etc. but with his role in ‘Bhaag Milkha Bhaag’ he has inspired many.
• The second person whom I am going to talk about is "CNN Person of the Year 2013", Mr. Kapil Sharma, and
• The third person who have inspired me is Arvind Kejriwal. A man who was just a right hand to the India's most celebrated person in 2013.

As I mentioned, there has been many such experience in 2013 which I am in no state to share, currently. In short, I would like to tell that since 2009, all the years has been better than the last ones. And hence, 2013 has been the memorable Year of my life till now. And I would like to thank all my friends and well-wishers for being with me throughout the year, (Specially CP Jain and Ashish Sir). Let's promise that we will stay together in each other's success throughout 2014 too. I hope this year has been good for all of you.

Ending with, A Very Happy Last Day of 2013 to all of you. This year has been the BEST YEAR OF MY LIFE. I hope it is the same with all of you. 2013 will always remain as a good memory to me.

Thanks,